By Kate Dixon
If you find yourself longing for greater intimacy and more sex with your wife, you are not alone. A lot of men feel this way as they struggle to figure out why their wife seems to have lost her passion. In this article I will share 7 action steps to help you get your wife in the mood for sex. I hope and believe that these will help you have a lot more hot sex with your wife.
1. You need to woo - A lot of men think that the wooing part is behind them once they tie the knot. It's not true. You need to continue working on "winning your wife over" day after day. It never ends. Sure, you may not need to buy her flowers every day but every once in a while is nice. Always think that you need to make her love you again and you will have a better time of making her want sex again.
2. Women are driven by emotions, not just physical attraction. This means that you have to be emotional around your wife to get her in the mood for sex. Tell her how you feel, show her that you love her, make her feel wanted. All these things will help her connect to her emotional side better and for you to seduce her more easily.
3. A clear mind is an open mind - Women need to have a clear mind to be open to sexual advances. If the house is a mess and there are plenty of chores to do, your wife may not be that open to sex right now. You need to make sure your wife is free of her obligations and the stuff "she has to do right now" to be open to have sex with you.
4. Your wife needs to feel sexy. If she comes home from work, tired and feeling that she doesn't look her best, you need to compliment her and let her feel like you only have eyes for her. This will make her feel wanted and in the mood for some lovemaking.
5. Don't just jump on your wife the minute she gets home. Build up the sexual tension throughout the day by sending her sexy text messages, have a boquet of flowers waiting for her when she walks through the door, or cook dinner for her. Let her gradually slide into the having sex frame of mind.
6. If you wife is open to sweet talking and dirty talking, this may be a way to get her in the mood. Knowing how to combine some dirty talking and sweet talking can prove to be a powerful seduction technique. Try it out and see how it works.
7. Look and smell your best - I just had to get this off my chest. If you want to have more sex with you wife, you have to be clean and smell nice.
If you find yourself longing for greater intimacy and more sex with your wife, you are not alone. A lot of men feel this way as they struggle to figure out why their wife seems to have lost her passion. In this article I will share 7 action steps to help you get your wife in the mood for sex. I hope and believe that these will help you have a lot more hot sex with your wife.
1. You need to woo - A lot of men think that the wooing part is behind them once they tie the knot. It's not true. You need to continue working on "winning your wife over" day after day. It never ends. Sure, you may not need to buy her flowers every day but every once in a while is nice. Always think that you need to make her love you again and you will have a better time of making her want sex again.
2. Women are driven by emotions, not just physical attraction. This means that you have to be emotional around your wife to get her in the mood for sex. Tell her how you feel, show her that you love her, make her feel wanted. All these things will help her connect to her emotional side better and for you to seduce her more easily.
3. A clear mind is an open mind - Women need to have a clear mind to be open to sexual advances. If the house is a mess and there are plenty of chores to do, your wife may not be that open to sex right now. You need to make sure your wife is free of her obligations and the stuff "she has to do right now" to be open to have sex with you.
4. Your wife needs to feel sexy. If she comes home from work, tired and feeling that she doesn't look her best, you need to compliment her and let her feel like you only have eyes for her. This will make her feel wanted and in the mood for some lovemaking.
5. Don't just jump on your wife the minute she gets home. Build up the sexual tension throughout the day by sending her sexy text messages, have a boquet of flowers waiting for her when she walks through the door, or cook dinner for her. Let her gradually slide into the having sex frame of mind.
6. If you wife is open to sweet talking and dirty talking, this may be a way to get her in the mood. Knowing how to combine some dirty talking and sweet talking can prove to be a powerful seduction technique. Try it out and see how it works.
7. Look and smell your best - I just had to get this off my chest. If you want to have more sex with you wife, you have to be clean and smell nice.